[Tim gives a bitter laugh at the new information. Of course there would be some sort of catch.] You could have started with that.

But are you sure you all actually... [He pauses with a frown. Suddenly realizing how heartless he was being charging ahead with his questions like this. He takes a deep breath and starts again. Trying to be a bit more kind this time.] I'm sorry. I can't even imagine how hard it would have been to experience that. It must have been horrific.