It's a condition because then it's not something that I have to wonder if it's a lie. Not something I have to question if it's real or not.

It's a condition because I want to know where she is. She's my responsibility now and if someone gets hurt while I'm responsible I want to know. I don't know this woman well enough like you know your submissives. I'm afraid that my trust needs to be earned before I freely give it away these days.

How you treat your submissives is just going to be different to how I treat mine and how I'm sure other people treat theirs.

Huh. Didn't realise that happened to you. [He bites his tongue from saying anything like: makes sense and they got it right the first time.]